
New Year's Eve--1999
Nine years ago today, Joel and I officially met. We were both officers in the Golden Key National Honors Society at Indiana University. Joel, being a numbers guy, was the Treasurer and I, being a social gal, was co-chair of Public Relations with my friend, Jen. All of the officers had to travel to the regional conference at Ohio State University, which was perfect since Jen's boyfriend, Jeremy, was attending school there and we could all get together.
I don't remember too much of the actual conference, but I'm sure it was great. I do remember joining in on a random conversation Joel was having with another girl (gasp!) about his tie. I told him I thought it was a great tie since my dad had a similar one, and I could tell he was smitten. I mean, don't all guys love being compared to a girl's dad? Ha!
Later that night we all went to a place called Gibby's. Joel and I started talking and hit it off right away. I don't think either one of us stopped talking or laughing all night. Even Jen and Jeremy commented that I finally met someone who talked as much as I did! We didn't exchange phone numbers at the end of the night because we thought we would see each other at breakfast. Little did either of us know that his ride was leaving early that day and they wouldn't be coming to breakfast. I was kind of bummed that he didn't show up but was sure that he'd call when we got back to school.
I waited all week and didn't hear from him. By Thursday I was thinking that I should take the matter into my own hands. After all, I
was the co-chair of Public Relations and knew how to look him up in the directory. I ended up sending him an e-mail that day telling him that I had a great time hanging out with him on Saturday and thought we should do it again sometime.
Later that day I was taking my friend Amy (Behrens) Baker to one of her classes on campus. I normally didn't do that, but she had been over for lunch and we had to finish watching the Showcase Showdown on "The Price Is Right." :) (Gosh, I miss those days!) I told her I would just drop her off so she didn't have to take the bus. When I pulled up to the building, Amy jumped out of the car and yelled, "JOEL!!!" Amy and Joel had gone to school together at Snider High School in Ft. Wayne so she recognized him waiting in a huge crowd at the bus stop. Joel came over to the car and I told him I'd take him home. (Thanks, Amy!)
On the way to his apartment I told him that I had sent him an e-mail. He told me he had just received it and laughed because he had tried to e-mail me when he returned to campus on Sunday. He only knew my first name and there were two girls named Kristy in the group. He accidentally e-mailed the other Kristy, who happened to have a boyfriend also in the group. He said basically the same thing I did, that he had had a great time and would love to get together soon. Her reply to his e-mail was, "Nice to meet you. See you at the next meeting." He had no idea he e-mailed the wrong Kristy until he got my e-mail. (Side note: Future meetings with that Kristy were a little uncomfortable for Joel. Ha!!!)
We ended up going out that next night and have been together ever since! Nine years later, he still makes me laugh as much as he did that night at Gibby's. Love you, Joel!

Tailgating before an IU football game. Can you tell we're forming the IU symbol?

Getting pumped up before our intramural flag football game. Notice the IU symbol again...so original, huh? (Joel, there are no bunny ears in IU. You're so sneaky!)

Hiking in the woods at Brown County State Park w/ Joel's parents. Gosh, we look so young!
To this day I still think that initiation fee to Golden Key was the best money I ever spent. And to think I only joined to be able to put it on my resume! :)
So if this post doesn't get me taken out for a nice dinner, I don't know what else will!